Spanking isn’t quite what we see in our porn collections my friend. You know what I’m talking about; the girl with the big bosoms receiving smacks on her behind from her hunky man. There’s a lot more to spanking than just belting her once and hoping for the best! There are things that you need to consider before you lay a hand on her if you want to get the most out of the experience. Find out how to do it right with the following tips.
Tips for Spanking Newbies
• First things first… talk to your partner and make sure that they’re into the idea because without consent; it quickly goes from sexy spanking to abuse! (Try explaining to a cop that you were just spanking her for fun and see where that gets you!)
• Start off with the hands. There are all kinds of neat paddles and gadgets for spanking out there, but the best way to get a feel for spanking—literally—is to use your hands to do the spanking because it’s a lot easier to gage the intensity this way. Starting off too hard or intense could put an end to your spanking fun before it’s even had a chance to really get started.
• Pick a comfortable position and by this I mean comfortable for you both, but more so for her—atleast at first! The most popular positions are with the ‘spankee’ lying across your lap while you work away at her bottom or she can be on all fours or bent over a chair for her spanking. For most, it’s the vulnerability of being spanked that is the true turn on, so any one of these positions, where she feels that she is being ‘taken’, will be best for the full effect.
• Use common sense and just remember that you’re doing this for pleasure. A swift, forceful blow is NOT pleasurable! Start off lightly and slowly and limit the spanking to the fleshy part of her buttocks as any other spots may prove too painful and quickly put an end to your fun.
• Every spank should be followed by a caress or lick or other form of foreplay. The area will be super sensitive and maybe even stinging after a couple of spanks so the feel of your light caress will really up the pleasure factor. Anything more than that will send her through the roof with arousal!
• Be aware of your partner’s reaction to each spank. Watch how they react and feel their movement under your hand. If she’s trying to get away, then she may not be digging it. If you’re having trouble knowing whether or not her whimper is one of pleasure or torture, then you should stop and ask.
• If you both are really into it and want to explore more, consider using a paddle for a more intense sensation. You don’t even need to go to a sex toy shop for one. Think ping-pong, table tennis or any other paddle-using game that you may even already have at home.
• Agree on a ‘safe word’ which you will know really means ‘stop’ should she use it. Getting carried away in the role of the discipliner is easy since you’re in a position of power AND sexually aroused. The word ‘no’ may not seem as powerful when you’re in the throes of your role as punisher, so agreeing on a code word will help to know when she really wants you to stop or when she’s moaning a ‘no’ that is actually a ‘yesssssss!’.
Now that you know the basics, the rest is really up to you. You can start off light and before you know it be in the throws of all-out corporal punishment if that’s what you both fancy.
It’s all about whatever turns you and her on. And as long as it is feeling good for both of you, then you’re on the right track. If you keep it light and fun and watch that backhand, then you should be just fine.
Happy Spankin’!
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