So you’ve got a hottie spending the night and you wanna make sure that you can really rock her world multiple times throughout the course of the night, but how are you going to last that length of time?
What you’re about to read may make you laugh and some of it may even make you cry, but it’s all good and true and definitely worth trying out! These 6 surefire tips will help you keep going and going and going…
1. Self-love. Yes, that’s right. Ben Stiller was on the right track in that infamous scene in There’s Something About Mary. By masturbating before hand and releasing all of your pent up tension, you won’t be quite so ‘eager to seek release’ later. Plus, the more you masturbate, the longer you’ll be able to last every time and really impress her!
2. Try a cockring. If you’re not exactly the cockring type and don’t want to be seen wearing one of those studded numbers that make frequent appearances in cheesy 80’s adult films, you can always try one of the ‘couples’ cockrings that have a clit stimulator on it made for her. This way you get the restricted blood flow that a ring provides while looking like the unselfish lover who got a toy with her pleasure in mind!
3. Pullout and go south. When you’re having sex and feel like you may be getting close a little sooner than you wanted, pullout and move onto other things like giving her oral. It’ll definitely prolong things on your end and you’ll blow her mind in the meantime; making you look like the most giving and skilled lover since Don Juan…or Ron Jeremy.
4. Wear a condom. Technically, this is something that you should already be doing, but if you’re not, then roll one on! A condom can help you last longer because if tight enough, it works similar to how a cockring does, plus the extra barrier between your member and her juicy loveliness will help decrease sensation if you use one of the thicker kinds that most people usually try to stay away from.
5. Control your breathing. Sounds almost poetic, doesn’t it? If you focus on your breathing and concentrate on slowing it down while you’re having sex, it can help you last longer by not only dividing your attention so you’re just distracted enough to not ‘come’ but it also naturally helps to control your excitement level. If you want more tips on the breathing thing then have a look at books or sites about Tantric sex. If it helps Sting and Trudy make love for more than 8 hours at a time, then it’ll work for you too!
6. Think of something unsexy. Yeah, it may seem like a joke but this tip actually works wonders! Think about something that turns you off like nothin’ else; your mom or your boss or that ugly girl with yellow teeth that works in the next cubicle. If all else fails; try to picture having sex with a big, hairy guy. If you’re straight then that should definitely do the trick!
Pssst…
If you’ve tried all of these and you find that no matter what, you’re still coming too fast—by fast I mean in 2 minutes or under—then you may have to consider the fact that you could be a premature ejaculator.
These tips, over time, are known to help a guy get his timing under control, but to really get to the source of the problem, you may want to consider talking to your doctor for some extra help to rule out any other underlying issues and to get advice on the different medical treatments available.
And just a note on premature ejaculation: up to 40% of men are premature ejaculators. Premature ejaculation is actually THE most common sexual problem that men face. It is definitely manageable so don’t let it get you down. Sorry, bad choice of words. Anyway, I just thought you should know.
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