Phone sex may have a notorious name in the world, but it is something that can really be put to great use. Imagine you are living away from your loved one because of a professional or some other reason. Or, simply imagine that you and your partner are just too busy to have real physical sex as much as you want. Probably when you get home from a hectic day of work, you are physically too exhausted to do anything even though you want so much to be with each other. In such situations, phone sex can work marvelously.
In fact, some couples who practice phone sex regularly have claimed that it has helped to bring them closer. They maintain that they can tell each other on the phone what they would not feel comfortable to tell each other when they are face to face. Also, when apart, phone sex has helped them to rekindle their passions and reassure each other that they really miss each other and are faithful. So, phone sex has its uses!
Of course, let’s not forget that phone sex can help keep your sex lives exciting. It’s natural that after a while, sex becomes a routine for a couple. If you inject some naughtiness now and then, it makes everything ‘titillating’.
How to Engage in Phone Sex with Your Partner
1. When you plan out a phone sex session, you have to make sure you are free from all your mental wrangles and worries. Keep at least half an hour for the activity. See that you do not get disturbed in any way. Remove all distractions and see that no ungainly noises will disturb you. Check that your phone is in good working condition too!
2. Some people find it quite difficult to get into the groove. If this is your problem too, you can try perking up the ambience of the room a little. Dim the lights, put on some mood music, spray some good perfume… such things work. Put on clean sexy clothes too. They really help set the mood.
3. Now is the time to make the call. It is best if you and your partner have pre-decided about the call because that makes sure they are ready too. Relax, take a deep breath and make the call.
4. When you call, do not let the excitement get the better of you. Start with small talk then gradually get naughtier and naughtier. For instance, start with the standard “So tell me babe, what are you wearing?” If she doesn’t bite and reply naughtily, simply tell her you are naked because you’ve been feeling ‘hot’. Be sure that you don’t get carried away and go on a whole speech here. Keep your phone sex talk going on like a conversation and not like a one-dimensional fantasy trip at your own end.
5. Slowly get down to dirtier talk. Talk about stripping. Talk about your partner’s private parts and what you would like to do with them. Let them talk dirty too. Slowly increase the pace.
6. Punctuate your talks with adequate sounds. Use moans and groans to effect. This is very important in phone sex because you cannot see each other’s faces.
7. Gradually lead your partner to fantasize and even encourage her to engage in self-love. Do that yourself. Tell your partner what you are doing. This will get you both really heated up and you’ll both end with a shuddering orgasm. Finish with some lovely after-sex talk.
It is not difficult to have phone sex with your partner. The only thing you need is the determination to do it! Even if you’re both at home, simply go to another room, call her cell phone and start some naughty talking!
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